Monday, March 05, 2007

I have so many things running through my head that I want to share. Unfortunately, I seem to have very little time to accomplish this. How can I squeeze more time into my day??? No, I will not get up any earlier. My body severly protests early mornings. If I stay up late, I will hate myself in the morning. (This makes my body even more unhappy than usual.) So I will have to settle for not being able to blog as much as I want to. (Insert a huge sigh here.)

A few weeks back, in the middle of dinner, Elisabeth noticed brownies sitting on the counter. "Are those FAIRY TALE brownies????"

I nodded, since it is not polite to speak with a mouth full of food.

"Where'd they come from?"

After swallowing I answered, "My mom sent them."

She scrunched up her face as if I'd said a very strange thing. "Your mom? Oh that sounds weird. I can't imagine ever saying 'my mom sent brownies."

I had to think about this for a second. Was it too difficult for her to imagine me buying & sending brownies to her and her some-day family? Could she not fathom anything but homemade brownies? Or was it because I'd said "my mom" when I usually referred to her as Gramma?

It turned out that it was the latter. I think it is hard to remember that "Gramma" is "my mom." One day "Gramma" for her kids will be "her mom." (ME!) Why is it so hard for us to wrap our minds around these thoughts?

I remember similar times through the years. Watching my grandma become a great-grandma I wondered what it would be like when my own mother was a great-grandma. It happened when Ethan was born and now she had 2 great-grandchildren. But my mom and dad don't seem old. I have a hard time imagining my parents having serious health problems, or being frail. They've always been...well, the parents. Parents are supposed to be the ones who do everything, take care of everything. Or are they?

Michael's parents are in the process of a huge change in their lives. They've lived the past 42 years or so in Arizona. This Thursday, they officially become Colorado residents. They are coming here to live out their remaining years. We feel so privileged and blessed, but I wonder what they might be feeling. I can't imagine such a huge life-change at this point in my life. What would it be like in another 35 years or so? They are leaving everything comfortable, all the familiar. Not only will the weather and altitude be very different, the only ones they will know is us. New friends, new doctors, new church, new home...pretty much everything about their lives will change. I wonder if Fairy Tale Brownies would welcome them to their new life? Nah, I think I'll go for homemade cookies and a cozy, warm, electric blanket for their bed to remind them of the Arizona sunshine.

5 comments:

Lisa said...

I think that once we reach a certain maturity of mind, we sort of stay there... That's why we are shocked to think of our parents as older... And why that person in the mirror no longer looks like we thought they did! *LOL*

Hoping your in-laws enjoy their new home! :o)

Carolanne said...

I understand that feeling of having too much on my mind and not enough time to blog.

I can't imagine being old or even having grandchildren. I know it will happen one day but sometimes it even surprises me to think that my cute little son is now cute, tall and 14!

Amie said...

I was thinking that just today as I was dwelling on my parents' yearbook pictures. They look so young - not that they look old now, but it made me wonder what I would look like in 30 years, so unlike I do now. Would my kids recognize me if I showed them a yearbook picture of me? Life keeps it's circle, with or without us. Good thought, thanks. I especially like the "Fairy Tale" brownies.

Anonymous said...

wow, I can't imagine the acclimation required to adjust to CO after AZ! I know you all will be blessings to one another, though.

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Anonymous said...

Oh, where in Colorado? We moved here from MN, and it is warmer in CaƱon City then it was in MN,IA or MO when an icestorm would come through. We actually live in the "banana belt" of Colorado, so we have it the best here.

When I am a grandma (my oldest is getting married in June) and a greatgrandma, I hope to be traveling the world. I don't care where I live, just so I get to do what I love and be with my dear husband.