Saturday, April 28, 2007

Sleep

I need sleep, lots of it. Am I getting old? I wonder how I managed having 5 children, and the sleep deprivation that came with it. For 13 years straight, I didn't have uninterrupted sleep. Most nights I sleep 6 or 7 hours, but that doesn't seem to be enough. I look forward to Saturday mornings when I can sleep for at least 9 hours. (If you've never experienced this, I hope some day you will. For years, I doubted it would ever happen.) Occasionally, the kids have a day off during the week, and I look forward to that as another day to sleep in. (Now if I would also quit believing I get to stay up late the night before...)

Yesterday was just such a morning. I warned Michael the night before that I was sleeping in, and since it is the only time he gets up before me, I asked him to not wake me up. Apparently, he doesn't realize what a light sleeper I am. When I finally dragged myself out of bed, I was more than a bit cranky. Later, I felt terribly guilty for it. Afterall, Michael had to go into the office, so that is why he spent 20 minutes opening and closing drawers, shuffling through the closet, in-and-out of the bathroom, etc.

So why is it, that some people function just fine on little sleep, even laughing themselves silly or stay up all night just for fun?

Ethan had an EEG on Thursday, a sleep deprivation one. He was allowed to sleep from midnight until 4 a.m. My daughter was not looking forward to being sleep deprived along with him. His test began at 8 a.m. Ethan watched in a mirror, as the tech used a sharpie to draw dots all over his head. (What were we thinking? Yes, later in the day he was drawing on himself with a pen.) We could hear another overtired child crying in the next room. But Ethan was all giggles.
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Being so tired, I thought he might get upset at the probes and then the wrapping of his head, but does he look like he minds? I know if I was that tired, and lying in a bed, I would not be so happy. Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at PhotobucketPhoto Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket

Once he was wired, they dimmed the lights and he cozied up to sleep. Then the strob light began flashing in his eyes. He grinned the whole time.
Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket Once the strob light stopped, Ethan fell fast asleep. He was monitored for 10 minutes. Then he had to be woken up.

The whole time, I tried to imagine how I would feel if I had to endure this type of testing. Sleep deprivation, flashing lights, finally peaceful sleep-only to be awakened after 10 minutes. Ethan was a trooper. He awoke smiling, as if he'd had a full nights sleep. He didn't even fall back asleep on the drive home. I wish I could have his happy disposition with so little sleep.

What about those who go without sleep for fun? Last night was prom. Sarabeth attended. The after prom party began at midnight. Double-decker buses drove them around to various activities, so if the kids were tired, they weren't allowed to go home early. They had to stay up until the buses arrived back at the school at 7:30 this morning. But that is another story. I'll post pics tomorrow of prom or late today after sleeping beauty wakes up.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

For those of you who want true insight on my mother's obsession with sleep, you need to know the whole story. She isn't lying when she says she cares A LOT about sleep. Growing up, we got to hear about it everyday. No matter what the ailing pain was, my mother insisted that more sleep would solve the problem. Headache? sleep. Stomache ache? sleep. Sore wrist? sleep. Stress from peer pressure at school? sleep. Blurred vision? sleep, etc etc. And if you think this is an exaggeration, I assure you not. At 22 years old, I go home to visit my family and within the first hour of every visit mom insists I "take a nap" because I look so tired. hahaha, mom you are hilarious! Thank you for caring though, always concerned :) I love you!

Henny Penny said...

Sleep? What is this thing you call sleep? LOL

Ethan looks like he was having fun!

Anonymous said...

Christopher,

When you have children crying in the night you will realize your OWN obsession with sleep! Children steal your energy and never give it back!! My 3 and 5 year olds have hidden my energy somewhere and I can't find it!! Make them give it back!

My husband amazes me though. He gets 5-6 hours of sleep a night. There is NO WAY I could survive on that! Well, I could. But I would be CRANKY!!!

Off to take a nap... :)

Heth said...

What a trooper! Ethan amazes me. That test would be not fun at all.

I'm with you. I looooove my sleep.

Paula said...

I'm known as "the queen of the bed" dubbed that by my dear husband, because he KNOWS not to wake me up if possible. (I do suffer through all of that drawer opening, etc. every morning when I SHOULD be able to sleep a little longer. He gets up with the early shift/big kids.)

I can function on 7 hours of sleep, but not every night. 9 is what I prefer!

Anonymous said...

Christopher, your mom sounds just like me! Sleep IS the answer to all problems, lol!

Ethan sounds like a sweetheart and your dd sure looks gorgeous!