Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Ethan & The Wedding

We were unsure how Ethan would handle the wedding. He is easily overwhelmed when subjected to large groups of people. Over 300 people were invited to the event.

At the rehearsal, Ethan seemed fascinated by the church. The cathedral ceiling and stained glass windows were new to him.

Christina & Sarabeth were scheduled to light the candles at the beginning of the ceremony. Ethan quickly clasped their hands, ready to go.

Thinking he wasn't up to the task, his grandpa coaxed him to the back of the foyer.

But just as soon as the girls began walking down the aisle, Ethan broke out in huge sobs and shrieks. He did not want him mom going anywhere without him.

The day of the wedding, Christina dressed Ethan in his new suit. When he realized he and his grandpa matched, he was delighted.

At some point he found his pants pocket. His hand remained there the rest of the night.


At the wedding, and at the reception. He eventually realized he had 2 pockets. We never saw his hands again. I picked him up and danced with him. It was a little awkward since he kept both hands securely tucked.

Ethan did amazingly well, even with the crowds of people. During the ceremony, holding hands with his mom and Sarabeth, he marched down the aisle and up the steps to light the candles. I stood in the back with Christopher, waiting to be escorted to my seat. Christopher, filled with emotion, said, "Ah, I'm so glad Ethan went with them." At that moment, Ethan turned towards the audience, wide-eyed with wonderment. Christopher turned away, as tears filled his eyes. "Mom, I don't know how I'm going to get through this." A moment later, both of us teary-eyed walked the aisle together. I took my seat, and the groom stood waiting for his bride.

6 comments:

Melanie said...

What a beautiful church! No wonder Ethan was in awe! Can't wait to read more and see more pics!

Heth said...

Sweet, sweet Ethan. I love the way he views the world. I imagine the days way just as magical for him if not MORE magical.

~Tammy~ said...

beautiful!

PJ said...

How wonderful that Ethan was able to be a meaningful part of the celebration. The church is beautiful. It all looks lovely.

Anonymous said...

Such a sweet picture of Ethan's experience. I love hearing about the wedding.

I bet it is one of those occasions that will take a while to fully process?

Lori said...

Sounds like Ethan did very well. Jackie is also overwhelmed by these types of situations. At Nicole's wedding we struggled some with her. Especially during the meal when they would tap their glasses to have the bride and groom kiss. Jackie would burst out crying every time. It took a lot to console her.

I hope to see more photos.