Monday, August 31, 2009

Family

Whoever thought up the idea of family was a genius. Oh wait, that was God. No wonder it is an amazing ensemble of gifted people! I have the best family in all of the world.

Parents who are extremely encouraging, who pray and take time to listen and offer their support & wisdom to their grandkids. One who will email back and forth to discuss college plans that have gone awry; send a card or note filled with love.

Brother-in-laws who come to visit and bless us with their skills. Whether it's a car repairs, tiling a floor, buying a kite for Ethan, or entertaining us with their sense of humor, they are generous, kindhearted men.

Kids that support one another, who are willing to drive an hour and a half just because they don't want the other to be alone in a difficult time.

A daughter-in-law who fits so well in the family and brings joy to my son.

I could go on and on listing what a blessing family is. Whether born, adopted, or married into a family these relationships make life so much richer. Of course, just because we are related doesn't mean we don't have misunderstandings, hurt feelings, or issues. But BECAUSE we are family, we work through our differences. It is where we learn to grow & give.

But the bigger picture of family, points us back to God. I find it interesting that when one becomes a Christian, he joins the family of God. The bible describes it different way: He has adopted us as His children, we are born-again, we become the bride of Christ. The three ways we become part of a family.

Sadly, culture today doesn't value family as the one place we support, accept, & love one another. Families are broken, merged, blended, & split again-losing all sense of the loved ones who will always be there for you. Family was created to stand united.

Thank-you to my family for all you are, for loving, giving, sharing, & standing strong. Life wouldn't be the same without you.

3 comments:

gretchen from lifenut said...

Lovely, Joanne. Beautifully written and so true.

Unknown said...

Joanne,
It's mutual. Grateful to be part of this family.
Larry

Ed Haws said...

Joanne: We couldn't make is without all the suport you and Michael have given us since we moved to the Denver area. We consider it to be one the better decisions whe have ever made.

I can't put into words how much we love you and pray for you and your family for being there for us.

Mom and Dad Haws