A New Stroller

Ethan finally has his new stroller. Technically it is called a Push Chair. It is similar to a wheelchair except that it can't be pushed by the rider. The wheels aren't big enough for that. No more carrying him from the car or trying to drag him into the store. Here is a not-so-good picture of him in it:



My teens were not as excited about it. They think it looks too much like a wheelchair, which shouts "Special Needs" or "Disabled." They want people to know him as Ethan, not a kid with labels. It will be interesting to see if people react to him differently than when he was in a typical stroller. Will others be more patient with him when he is playing in the mall play area and doesn't interact or respond like the other children? Will they look past his meltdowns and not comment how tragic it is that his parents haven't taught him how to behave? Or will they merely view him as different and look away, not acknowledging him at all? In dealing with our own inadequacies of not knowing what to do, we often do nothing. We're afraid of offending someone so we say nothing at all. I posted about my own shortcomings. My hope is others can learn and grow the same way we are-by being confronted with different, causing us to step out of our comfort zone.

UPDATE Christina took Ethan to the mall today. When she got home, she said she was shocked at how people reacted to her pushing Ethan in his new chair. She said instead of people smiling at him, talking to him, or commenting that he had cute, curly hair, she said they would turn their heads and look away when they saw him coming. Sad.