Wednesday, November 08, 2006

Silver Teeth

Mary, over at Owlhaven, wrote a post about scars. She asked others to post about their own scars. I didn't get it posted right away, so it is long past everyone else's post, but I'm going to post anyway.

Back when I was in the 4th grade, my family moved from one small town to another. We were the new kids on the block. We lived in this rented home with a cool ramp out the back door. I'm sure it was a wheelchair accessible door, but we kids found plenty of other uses for it. That winter, on a very cold night, we found that we could pour water down the ramp and it would freeze as it flowed. This created a spectacular downhill sliding surface.

This night, my parents had guests over for dinner. As soon as the meal ended and the adults were content to sit there and talk, we slipped out the back. We needed more ice on our slope. Bucket after bucket was poured until we had one of the finest ice slides. Then the fun began. We raced one another down the ice wearing the slickest shoes we could find. Only 2 kids could race at a time and my older brother and sister were quite competitive. I wasn't getting too many turns while they practiced and had opportunity to strategize the quickest way down. Finally it was my turn again.

Greg and I poised at the top of the slope. On your mark, get set, go! I was ahead for a split second, then my brother pushed ahead. With that push I found myself falling face first onto the ice. I don't remember much after that. I do recall blood dripping down and my sister trying to keep me from going to my mom so we wouldn't get into trouble. I think my other sister went screaming to my parents and the rest is sort of blurry.

My lip was split open and it hurt pretty bad, but my parents were more concerned with my missing teeth. Our company knew of a dentist who worked emergencies. After a couple of phone calls we were in the car, off to see the dentist. I came home with two new shiny silver teeth and a fat lip. The next day, my brother found my two front teeth stuck in the ice.

Truthfully, this isn't a scar, but I wore those silver teeth like a scar. When I smiled, people were blinded by the reflection off of those two teeth. That Christmas I sang, "All I want for Christmas is my two front teeth." And I sang it until I was 18 years old. I finished my elementary career wearing those tinsel teeth. I went on to junior high and high school, sporting that metalic smile. I endured much teasing and laughter because of this scar. At times I felt like a freak. But somehow, I believe it built compassion and tenderness into my heart. Scars can be character building. They can be a reminder of what once was, or we can embrace them, knowing our Lord also has scars.



(Honestly, it is difficult to post, but I had to include a picture. This was one of my school pictures from 7th grade.)

10 comments:

owlhaven said...

You're beautiful! What a story....


Mary

Heth said...

An ice slide? Wow, nowadays kids would be forced to wear helmets and mouth guards if they were going to play that kind of a game.

I think it's wonderful that you gained such a wise perspective on the whole thing. Compassion for others is an amazing thing to have, especially at such a young age. Love the freckles by the way.

Anonymous said...

You are very brave to tell that story and to relive all the details! I was cringing as I read it! OUCH!

Carolanne said...

All of the above! (They stole my thoughts.. honest. lol)
I actually was thinking of doing a blog post about scars but then decided it would be way too long!

Anonymous said...

Thinking about those two teeth stuck in the ice... *Cringe*

You were/are a lovely person. You were way ahead of your time. Don't the rappers call that a grill? Rosie has two stainless steel caps. *Smile*

Anonymous said...

that's such a cute picture! but i can see how the other kids would be mean. thanks for sharing the story.

and thanks for the congrats! we are excited.

Anonymous said...

What a story. That must have hurt! Thanks for sharing your story

Anonymous said...

One of my aunts has a hare lip because of a severe fever when she was a child. Because of that, I believe she has learned not to bother herself with what people think of her. She has the most guileless and honest character I know of.

Lori said...

Oh my! That had to be very hard especially at that tender age. You were still very beautiful. Thanks for sharing.

Anne said...

Wow - that wasn't easy to go through. You're right though - our scars can be good for us if we allow them.