Color Or Not Color

A good friend of mine, now that she has her first grandchild, has decided to rock her natural hair color. Because the two of us share a grand daughter, I wondered how I would look with naturally white hair. The time, hassle, and cost of continually coloring my hair is annoying. This led me to hours of searching through pics of my hair.

2001-2002 

In the top left photo, I am 39 years old. Believe it or not, I was still highlighting my hair. As you can see from the middle picture, it was definitely gray. By the third, I had quit bleaching and was instead applying temporary color.

 2003
After turning 40, I decided to grow my hair out. I'd never had long hair in my entire life. I truly mean never. While my sisters were sporting ponytails, I had pixie cuts.

 2004

2004

A dear friend, who happens to be a hairdresser, pulled me aside and convinced me to go red and cut my hair.  It took a few tries to get the right color, but Michael fell in love with this ginger.

 2005
Red fades more than any other color, so I began going darker in an attempt to keep it from fading so fast.

2006 

I added blonde highlights,

2007
and continued to play with the color.

 2008
I couldn't decide about the cut.

2009
I experienced more than one bad haircut.

2010
A bad haircut results in a bad hair day,

2011
which can ruin my week,

2012
and can last for months.

2013
After I turned 50, I noticed my hair had also aged.

2014

Then I got busy and haven't had time to get my hair professionally done.

 What do I do??? Cut? Color? Go gray and return to my childhood pixie cut? I have an appointment with the hairdresser. Yikes!

Truthfully,

Joanne

 "The glory of youths is their strength, but the beauty of the aged is their gray hair." (Prov. 20:29)

Blessed Indeed!

I can't believe I have to wait a month to see the professional wedding photos. I can't wait to share them.

As the mother-of-the-bride, I didn't have a chance to take pictures myself, except when I grabbed Michael's phone and got this one.

I felt unbelievably blessed at the wedding. Not only was the bride beautiful and everything perfectly lovely, but I realized once again what an amazing family I have.

As I looked around the room,

 I saw 20 family members who had flown in from out of state to celebrate my daughter's wedding: my daughter's grandparents, cousins, aunts & uncles.

I looked at my own 5 children, their 4 spouses, and my 3 grandchildren;

I felt abundantly blessed.

Yet in that moment, I realized an even greater depth to our family.

Danny's parents were at the wedding. Lauren's parents were not only present but helped set up for the reception. Brian's mom was in attendance, as were Travis' parents. All 7 parents of my inlaw children were joined together as family to celebrate the wedding of Sarabeth & Travis. I  am blessed indeed!

Truthfully,

Joanne

 

(P.S. I hope to share pictures of everyone once we get the wedding photos back.)

"Behold, how good and how pleasant it is
For brethren to dwell together in unity!" (Ps. 133:1)

Happy Mother's Day

Mom's come in all varieties.  Some have babies, like to travel and have adventures. 

Some are good at juggling more than one child, while working a full time job.

 

Some have twins,

 some space their children 5 plus years apart.

 Some moms have grown children and younger ones too.

 Some have children while young, then add more when they are a bit older with grandkids older than some of their own children.

Some have lots of children who are all grown up with kids of their own, and since the grands are so far away, they collect dogs and puppies. 

Some moms manage to find time to see their grandchildren, in spite of having big families with adult children getting married, having wedding showers, baby showers, graduating/going to college.

And some moms have the privilege of being a mom/grandma to all of these other moms. 

Happy Mother's Day Mom, see you on Friday in New Orleans!

Truthfully,

Joanne

"May the Lord give you increase more and more,You and your children." (Ps. 115:14)

Three Things I Learned

I learned a few things the first week at my new job.  In random order:

1.  When traveling, DO NOT put hair products and face products in the same type of container when they are both white.

The first day on the new job went well, but I noticed my hair seemed very dry.  Like me, my hair is very sensitive to change of environment.  Consequently, the second day I decided to take out my deep hair conditioner in an attempt to rectify the dry hair dilemna. When I scooped out a gob and rubbed it into my hair, I noticed it felt different.  I figured that I had left it in my travel bag too long and it evidently dried out a bit.  When I noticed it didn't spread very well throughout my hair, I applied my regular conditioner as well.  This isn't uncommon, as I do have dry hair.

After my shower, I attempted to blow dry my hair, but it didn't seem to dry.  When I finally finished, I realized that my hair was dry, just extremely oily.  I looked back at the container. I realized I had just used half a jar of greasy face cream used to remove makeup to condition my hair.  It was too late to rewash it.  I spent the day looking as if I hadn't bathed in a week.

2.  Some people don't care if your hair looks dirty.

3.  Bringing gifts to the people you work with is very rewarding.

These are the people I worked with:

 

Neither one seemed to care whether or not I had greasy hair. 

I brought Ethan a guitar. He had indicated he wanted one.  He goes to music therapy twice a week for a total of 2 1/2 hours.  Before I even had a chance to tune the guitar, Ethan began playing it. 

The next day, Ethan had the day off of school, so I had promised him I would tune his guitar (even though he had already broken a string.)  After I fulfilled my promise, Ethan made me and Josiah sit on the couch.  He began strumming and singing his heart out.  After his first song, he folded his hands and began to pray.  He then gestured for me to stand up, and he began singing again.  He paraded across his pretend stage, singing and strumming. He paused, then bowed his head and loudly began praying. I finally asked him, "Ethan, do you want to be a worship leader at church?"  He immediately responded, "uh huh!" nodding his head up and down.

I wish I had his "performance" on video. It made me cry.  I had a great first week on the job.

Truthfully,

Joanne

"Jesus said, 'Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” (Mt. 19"14)

A New Job

I have a job!!!  I start tomorrow.  My new job involves traveling 1-2 overnights every week.  I don't know how long this job will last or how long Michael will tolerate me being gone every week, but for now I am a working woman. Can you tell I am excited?

Truthfully,

Joanne

"She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks." (Proverbs 31:17)

No Greater Joy

What are the greatest joys a parent can experience? 

An exhausted one might say a sleeping baby. (Josiah is on the left, Ivydee on the right.)

An older parent might say the blessing of grandchildren is their greatest joy.

I do agree about grandchildren, but one of my greatest joys as a parent came this past month.

On Sunday, April 6th, I had the privilege of worshiping at the church my daughter & son-in-law attend.

 On that day, my youngest grandson, Josiah, was dedicated to the Lord.

 Elisabeth, Sarabeth, & Travis also joined us.

On Sunday, April 13th, I had the privilege of worshiping at the church my son and daughter-in-law attend.

For 9 days I took daily walks with these two.

On Good Friday, April 18th, I attended church with Hilary, who had invited Ryan & his family.

We watched the Easter Drama of the death & resurrection of Christ.

There is no greater joy than being able to worship alongside my adult children & and their children in a church where they have found a home. Or watching my grandson Ethan, grasp the hand of everyone around the table to pray and knowing God understands every word he says.

Truthfully,

Joanne

“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. Keep these words in your heart that I am telling you today. Do your best to teach them to your children. Talk about them when you sit in your house and when you walk on the road and when you lie down and when you get up.” (Deut. 6:5-7)

Thirty-three

Thirty-three years ago, I became a mom to this sweet, baby girl.

Happy Birthday Christina!  

This was taken on the day you were baptized. Tomorrow you will dedicate your second son to the Lord.

I couldn't be more proud of the daughter you are, 

 a sweet older sister to your brother and sisters,

 a fisherman,

a loving mother, 

and a dedicated wife.

 

 You earned your degree,

and furthered your career opportunities by graduating as a R.N.

I remember when I turned 33.  All I could think about is Jesus ended his earthly life when he was 33 years old.  I felt I hadn't accomplished much by that age. But you sure have! I am so very proud of you, Christina.  Happy 33rd birthday!