Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Guess Who's Seven?

Seven years ago, I became a Grandma.


A happy baby who loved his grandma


Your first birthday was filled with wonder.


At 2, you liked animals, and sitting on Grandma's table.


Three brought books of animals


and birthday celebrations were so much fun.


When you were 4, we went to Arizona for your birthday

celebrated with great-grandparents and cousins.



At 5, you were more reflective.


At 6 your love of transformers began.


Sometimes you wore your glasses, sometimes not.


And now you are seven


And often silly


Finding fun hiding places


But such a delight and joy.


Happy Birthday my sweet grandson. Grandma loves you so much.

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Just Wondering

Thinking about Ethan this morning and wondering how he is doing. He is with his father and that scares me. "Lord, watch over my grandboy."

Friday, July 10, 2009

Seven Eleven

Happy 25th Birthday Christopher!
In honor of your 25th birthday, I pulled up a few short clips from MY 25th birthday. You were 4 months away from turning 3. You and Christina helped your dad bake me a birthday cake. The sound quality and video are poor, but if you listen close, your voice can be heard.



Stirring The Cake


Chocolate...no, butter pecan


Candles


Kisses

(I posted this early, because in South Korea, it is July 11!)

Thursday, July 09, 2009

It's been one of those weeks

Exactly one week ago it began with this post. I'm sure you remember the Sea Lion Bite. In that post I complained that if we hit a lull, someone or something makes sure life isn't too boring.

Here is my laundry room:

Pipe fixed, concrete poured.


At the end of the day, this is what it looked like and pretty much how it will look for awhile.


About an hour later, we had another casualty. But the driver is fine.


And did I mention we have out-of-town guests here, and for the next three weeks more coming?

Wednesday, July 08, 2009

Memories

Yesterday I had the privilege of reliving a childhood experience, but from a different angle. For a couple of years my parents owned a laundromat. Many Saturdays were spent helping mom or dad tend to this business. They both had full time jobs and this was our family's part time job.

A favorite chore for my sister and I, was to clean the lint traps on the washing machines. Thinking back, it was kind of gross and slimy. But for Laurie and I it was an adventure. The treasures left in pockets ended up caught in these traps. We never knew what we'd find. Dimes, nickels, pennies. We'd clean them as fast as we could to get to the next possible treasure find. I didn't like finding dead bugs, or when I couldn't tell what the object was. A key, buttons, a nail or screw, mostly typical things kept in a pocket or on clothing. But sometimes it might be a locket, earring, or other interesting artifact. At our young age, we didn't mind kneeling on the floor to accomplish the task. We got to keep whatever we found.

We loaded the vending and change machines too. I especially enjoyed filling up the soda pop machine and emptying out the coins. I could never figure out who it was that drank strawberry soda. It was always the most empty, and orange was the second. Nobody in my family liked either. I did drink my share of Mountain Dew, from a frosty glass bottle. Why doesn't soda come in glass anymore? It tasted so much better and seemed way colder. Mmm...the last time I drank Mountain Dew was at that laundromat and there will little chunks of ice in the bottle.

I went to the laundromat yesterday. But this time, it was as a patron. We have a broken sewer line. This very minute, men in jumpsuits are jackhammering the concrete under my laundry room floor. All we'd noticed last week was the drain wasn't emptying very fast. Since it was a holiday weekend, we waited to do laundry, run the dishwasher, etc. So I took my 14 loads of dirty clothes to the laundromat.

Instead of joy at filling the change machine, I fed my dollars into it. I got back quarters instead of dimes and nickels. Thirty dollars worth of quarters. It wasn't as much fun watching those coins going into the machine as I had as a kid hearing them drop into the metal change box. I imagined a young girl emptying the coins with her dad, taking pleasure at the sound of quarters emptying out. They probably don't plunk quite the same as I remember nickels did. But I'll bet she uses a plastic container that doesn't sing the way our coins jingled and clanked against the metal.

I did sweat more than I remember as a kid too. Which is surprising since I grew up in heat of the Phoenix desert. I guess it was the 14 loads of laundry. Have I mentioned that? But the childhood memories of laundromat ownership was worth the sweat and toil I endured.

One afternoon Dad and I worked hard. The machines were filled and emptied. Everything was wiped down and cleaned. Dad let me mop the floors with the big string mop and wringer bucket. I felt so strong flinging it back and forth. We locked up and I climbed up into his old blue pickup truck. As usual, he set the big metal coin box between the two front seats next to the gear shift. We each positioned a cold soda between out legs for the 20 minute drive home, a Pepsi for him, Mountain Dew for me. He started the engine, but before shifting, he leaned over and opened the metal box. He pulled out a 50 cent piece and handed it to me.

"Here. You worked hard today and I'm glad you came with me." I took the shiny coin. It felt like a million bucks, mostly because of the pride with which it was given. As we drove home, we listened to country music and sang. No, we jammed. The tin box became our snare drum and the handle of it made a tambourine sound. Dad would hit the side with the back of his hand, tap the top to jingle the metal together, beating to the rhythm of each song. Then I'd get a turn. I don't remember coming home exhausted like I did yesterday. But I do believe I came home feeling much taller.

Tuesday, July 07, 2009

A Hard Day At Work


"Come help Grandpa, Ethan."


Every boy wants to master a chainsaw, right?


Can you believe how helpful he is?


Strong too.


Taking a break, but can't take his gloves off if Grandpa has his on. I even tried to get him to wear some his own size, but he would have no part of it. Grandpa's are way cooler.


"Okay Grandpa, let's haul the branches away.


"Whew! Am I tired."

Saturday, July 04, 2009

Acceptance & Tolerance

I played Partini with the kids the other night. It's a fun game, if you don't mind laughing and being laughed at. I don't. One of the categories is to write a funny or true statement about a team member. Half of my cards mentioned not being able to multitask. Written much more cleverly than "unable to multi-task," they were the true statements.

My lack of being able to plan multiple things at once is getting worse. I used to pull it off quite nicely. I attacked each day fresh and new, without thought of the following day or week. I only had to think about and consider what was right in front of me. Keeps life simple.

My way of living leaves the door open to be spontaneous. Fun & excitment can happen at any moment, if I feel so inclined. Each day is full of possibility. If something unexpected comes up, I can adjust accordingly. I don't have a plan so nothing is interrupted.

The downside is, I can frustrate those around me due to my lack of planning. I can't carry on a conversation while on the computer. I am not a social shopper. If you want to chat, let's sit down and have a cup of coffee and visit. If you want to shop with me, know that I don't want your opinion, nor do I want to give you mine. I want to find what I went there looking for, purchase it, and go home. I don't want to browse or talk about how cute-this-outfit-is-even-though-I'd-never-wear-it. Nor is it my desire to check out the latest in ugly fashion statements. Sigh. I know this is a great disappointment to many.

Honestly, I can only focus on one thing at a time.

The same is true when I cook. It is hard to let you help me. I don't delegate well. If I'm talking I get distracted and forget ingredients. I'm also much slower because I have to stop chopping or dicing to say what's on my mind. If I'm chatting, I am not preparing the food. Dinner will be late. Truly I am single-minded.

And you know what the beauty of this whole post about me is? It is ok to be like this. My way isn't right and it isn't wrong. The world needs planners, and those that don't. If we were all planners we might frustrate the heck out of one another. Just like we all can't be leaders. If we were, we wouldn't be, because there wouldn't be anyone following. What fun would family and friends be if we were all the same?

So my promise to you is I will accept that you plan out every single last detail, if you will tolerate that I don't.

And sometimes, just for fun, let's reverse roles and broaden our horizons.

Thursday, July 02, 2009

Too Much Fun

I think it is a conspiracy. If too much time passes without us paying a visit to the Emergency Room, one of my kids finds a reason to go. I think our last visit was in April. Yesterday was July 1st. They must think I really miss the busy waiting area, or the blood and gore of the real deal. Maybe they've heard me remark too many times, while watching Trauma Life In The ER, "I think I may have missed my calling...I should work in the ER." So one or another will oblige me. Yesterday it was Sarabeth.

What happened? She was bit by a sea lion. No, we don't live in San Diego, nor were we vacationing in California. Frolicking with the sea lions & subsequent nibble happened here in good ol' Colorado. The ER docs were very excited to have an interesting case. They were equally impressed with Sarabeth's flipper bruise, as it had the outline of the digits. She saw no less than 8 or 9 curious doctors, nurses, & staff that all wanted the story. Apparently, when you work in the ER you get asked about your most interesting patients of the day.

Just in case you ever think it sounds cool to swim with the sea lions, let me show you these:

Notice those teeth? They can make a pretty good puncture wound.

(I know, you can't really see the puncture part, just the cut after it was all cleaned up.)

And this

Can leave a pretty good mark.




The pictures don't do justice to the actual injuries. But Sarabeth can't wait to swim with Kitty again.

Wednesday, July 01, 2009

Friday, June 26, 2009

Not Just Another Teenager

I thought someone switched babies with me at the hospital.


And I brought home an Indian baby. None of my kids had hair as dark as Sarabeth.


But her skin did lighten up.


Her hair got lighter


Then redder


Blonder & straighter


My little angel


Grew up & became a teenager



And then she was 20.

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

The Lost Day

Today is Wednesday. Or is it? I have no idea how I lost a day, but honestly I thought it was Tuesday today. I posted a Tuesday Truths today, was going to post a Kitchen Tip Tuesday on my recipe blog. And our gas station has cheaper gas on Tuesdays. I'm glad I didn't actually stop. I didn't really need gas, but usually fill it anyway on the cheap day....Tuesday. But someone told me it is Wednesday.

How did I lose a day???

That means it is someone's birthday tomorrow. I knew that. I knew it was on Thursday. So why did I think today was Tuesday????

Sigh.

That is what lazy summer days do. They fry your brain.

Tuesday Truths

The pets I've owned (or shared my home, meaning they were pets by someone in the house.) Six of these feed on live food. One of these I never really did have as a pet. Don't go by the photos as they aren't of my actual pets, except for one.

1. Rock

2. Firebelly Toad

3. Gerbil

4. Chameleon Lizard
5. Cat

6. Guppy

7. Dog

8. Hamster

9. Oscar

10. Poison Dart Frog

11. Catfish

12. Toad

13. Snake

14. Mouse

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

How Have You Been?

I received an email that started like this:

Dear Joanne,
I know how you have been lately.

I thought to myself, okay, how HAVE I been? Crabby...unfriendly...selfish...busy, all of the above? Oh my, talk about a reality check.

Another email arrived immediately afterwards that read:

Dear Joanne,
I left out one word in the phrase: "how busy you have been"


Whew! But truthfully, it was good to meet with such a challenging statement. Made me think real hard about how I have really been lately.

Sunday, June 21, 2009

50, really?

It was a Sunday. The pastor asked the men who were fathers to stand. The church wanted to honor and acknowledge them on Father's Day. Bravely, the man stood to his feet. "Psst!" A voice whispered. He turned to see Jack standing beside him. "You aren't a father yet. Sit down."

"Actually," my dad replied, "I became a father yesterday." Indeed he had. Fifty years ago my dad began his fatherhood journey. At the time, my mom wasn't due until August. She hardly looked pregnant and the parishoners at church had only recently noticed. Much to their suprise, my sister arrived on June 20th, just in time for Father's Day. Born at a cutting edge facility Carolyn was the youngest premature infant to survive. The hospital was experimenting with a new technique that later became standard practice when dealing with preemies. I believe it saved my sister's life. Well, that and her determination to live.

My sister's first months of life were without a voice. Mom describes going in to check on her to "see" if she was crying. The doctors didn't know if her vocal cords would ever develop. But once they did, according to mom, Carolyn has tried to make up for lost time when she had no voice.
Carolyn loves to talk. She is a story-teller. When she doesn't have a tale to tell, she makes one up. Her imagination is incredible. I grew up believing witches lived on our roof. I heard of their secret visits with my sister and she proudly displayed gifts they gave her. Many lates nights I lay in bed, listening to Carolyn tell of her adventures with "Witchie" and "Warlock." She really should have been a writer.

In high school, I found a notebook. It contained the most amazing words. Carolyn penned passionate poetry with powerful emotion. At that moment, I desired to be like her. I yearned for her ability to breathe life into words, springing them from the paper, to implant in the heart of its reader. My sister has this gift.

In honor of this Father's Day, I'd like to wish my dad a Happy 50th anniversary of being a great Dad, and a very big Happy Birthday to my sister-I won't say how old she is.

Happy Birthday, Carolyn. I love you so much.
Carolyn, daughter-in-law Lauren, Me, my sister Laurie

Thursday, June 18, 2009

How well do you know your rashes???

(Update: Hilary's back is beginning to improve, in spite of the rash spreading. The dr. is 90% sure it is contact dermatitis. In other words, she is allergic to the shampoo/conditioner she used.)


Anyone know what this might be???? I took my daughter to the doctor yesterday for it. And no, it isn't a bad case of acne. I thought I knew my rashes pretty well, but was a little stumped.